When a person is talented or skilled we have to appreciate their talent with compassion and kindness. All the traits[gunas] are provided by Srihari to human beings. If we appreciate a person’s guna’s or traits Srikrishna gets pleased.
There was an engineer who used to build houses with the utmost creativity. He put all his efforts and skills to build houses. His interior decoration will be perfect. If we praise that engineer’s talent certainly he will build our house also with perfection. But if we criticize his talent and ask him to build a house for us. Will he help us to construct a new house? The answer will be definitely “No”. It is a literal truth.
Similarly, each person has different gunas. One will be kind and compassionate, another will be talented, another will be sincere on his duty, one likes to do service or helpful to others, one will be a hard worker. one will have pleasing guna to invite others with a smile. ” Smitha purva bashi” This is one guna of Sri Ramachandra. Sri Ramachandra always has a pleasing tone with a smile on his face. He was very kind and compassionate to all his people while ruling Ayodhya. When he smiles the people think as if their worries and sorrows have wiped off.
Paramathma’s smile vanishes all our sorrows. Since he is poorna ananda Maya. This is an excellent guna. Also, each person has one guna given by sri Krishna. So swami says we must not criticize or underestimate others. It is like criticizing sri krishna only. If someone donates liberally, we must not criticize them ” is he a big landlord”? It is like scolding the engineer only. Though you gossip at home and the person does not hear it. But Sri Narayana knows it. Here he is the engineer. But he has no grief or attached to it. But it will make us nirguna[ Rajo and tamasa]. If we praise him, he will bless us with good gunas or traits.
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